Words of Inspiration and Motivation

Words of Inspiration and Motivation
"A nation that does not stand up for its children does not stand for anything and will not stand strong in the twenty-first century." Marian Wright Edelman
"Each of us must come to care about everyone else's children. We must recognize that the welfare of our children is intimately linked to the welfare of all other people's children. After all, when one of our children needs life-saving surgery, someone else's child will perform it. If one of our children is harmed by violence, someone else's child will be responsble for the violent act. The good life for our own children can be secured only if a good life is also secured for all other people's children."
Lillian Katz
"I hate the waste. It doesn't allow children to grow up to their fullest potential"
Louise Derman-Sparks

Saturday, May 28, 2011

Consequences of Stress on Children's Development

Chaos in the neighborhood
When I was about eight years old a family moved onto our street that had five children, a mom, and a dad. My brother and I played with the kids everyday after school. If I remember correctly they were all boys. We lived in an area where we were surrounded by woods and a state mental hospital, which made exploration very interesting. One cold, gray afternoon we were startled by a pounding on the front door. It was the dad of the five kids who lived up the street. He had the kids in the car. My mom invited him in and he started crying saying that his wife had left him. I think it was the first time I had ever seen a grown man cry. The kids in the car looked shell shocked. The mom had run away and left them. The mom never returned and the family imploded. The dad started drinking and couldn't take care of the kids. The children were placed in the orphanage (yes, we had one in the town I grew up in). We still saw the kids in school, but they were never the same. If I remember correctly, the older boy was returned home and the dad had a girlfriend that moved into the home. I heard that the other kids got into trouble and then they moved away. I often wonder what happened to them.
Childhood Poverty in India
I chose to learn more about how poverty impacts the lives of the children in India. I read a book about poverty in India several years ago and the book opened my eyes to the daily struggles of people in India. Life for children in India is very hard. Almost half of all children under the age of five are malnourished. There are inequalities in child well being based on gender, class, and caste. Despite the efforts of society and government, the cycle of disadvantage begins at birth and continues throughout childhood to adulthood and even into the next generation.
In recent years India's anti poverty programs have been subject to reform to ensure better targeting and coverage. Rural poverty continues because of lack of access to skills, health, and education. Despite the recent economic growth poverty numbers remain high. The enrollment of primary school-aged children rose from 68% to 82%. India still accounts for 20% of the world's out of school children. It has the largest numbers of working children in the world, with nearly a third of children below 16 years working.
References:
World Deevelopment Indicators Database, April 2003
World Bank, 2000, India-Reducing Poverty, Accelerating Development
UNICEF Country Statistics: India

2 comments:

  1. Elsie,
    I really feel for those kids at that age growing up and knowing that their mom left them that must have been really traumatic. I only wish that somehow, someday they will meet someone that will show them love and they will have the heart to forgive their mom. Thanks for sharing.

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  2. Elise,

    I just can't imagine how those children felt after their mother left. I wonder if the mother even ever came back to give them closure or anything? Sometimes I can't help but think how selfish parents can be at times, even though I'm sure there were many problems that we don't know of.

    Thanks for sharing.
    Beki

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